THANKSGIVING WEEKEND

What a crazy and fun past five days this has been!  The house is SO quiet, I can hear the dogs snoring!  Everyone is at work or school so I downloaded all 157 photos from Thanksgiving and our weekend away and I'm having such a good time looking at them as I sip my coffee and ignore the remains of breakfast around me!  So...on with the show.  This is my thanksgiving tablescape, and these are the flowers that The Husband bought.

They made a perfect centerpiece in the wicker basket I showed you last week.  I just stuffed some craft paper down in it to support the vase.  I added some mercury glass candles and some pine cones and we were ready for the feast!

After all my fuss about keeping traditions, Emily and I ended up brining the turkey on Wednesday.  A friend had all the leftover ingredients to use so that helped.  And I really think it was a success.  Emily also made three side dishes and we had a great time cooking in the kitchen together.  New traditions, new memories!  It really was a wonderful dinner.

Family came for dessert, we girls gathered together where all the appetizers and nibbles were while the guys hung out in the family room watching football (as usual).  It really was a fun day and I was exhausted by the time everyone left!

The next day we were up early to head to Cedarburg, Wisconsin for our anniversary weekend!  It was about a two hour drive and very scenic once we hit the rolling hills of Wisconsin.  Our B&B was really more like an inn...well, it was an inn.  This is the lobby and to the right is a large dining room where we had breakfast. 

This was our room on the third floor with a wonderful view of the main street.  It was just perfect in size and The Husband thought it was the best place we had ever stayed.

A bottle of Champagne was chilling along with a box of chocolates.  We were in our room so rarely, we ended up bringing it home with us!

We were out sightseeing and shopping as soon as we dropped our bags. 

The town was so charming, I was snapping pictures like mad!

I loved this little alley next to a shop that specialized in all things for gardening lovers.  I wanted to go back for some things that I fell in love with but somehow with the sensory overload, we forgot.

This rustic birdhouse was on my list.  Boo hoo!

This little guy dressed like Santa sold every kind of popcorn imaginable!

Back at the inn, they served wine and cheese and we got to know some of the other guests.  One very nice lady took a picture of me and The Husband!

The next day we went on a tour of a winery.  While we waited I took some pics.

This shop sold all the accessories but not the dishes...pretty tablescape!

Aren't they darling?

During the wine tour we learned about how the grapes are grown and things like fermentation.  And there was a little wine tasting.  I was surprised at how many different kinds I actually liked because I usually stick with white.  Upstairs you could buy all their different wines but we ended up getting some gourmet cheeses and mustard.  After the tour we went to dinner at a really nice place called The Farmstead.  I didn't bring my camera but it was just awesome, A real barn at one time with all the original wood and floors.

We are so looking forward to going back again, perhaps in the summer (hear that, Cindy?).  Friday was windy and freezing, about 25 degrees, but Saturday was sunny and you just had to walk on the right side of the street.  The shops has complimentary hot chocolate and cider to keep us warm.  It really was a magical weekend.

So, it's back to Monday and cleaning up, putting the fall things away and getting ready for that Christmas tree to come and take up all the available space in my living room!  I think I'll just enjoy it for how it is right now and get started on my Christmas list.  Abby has sent me emails with wish lists from all her favorite stores.  I think she adds more every day.  We picked up a few gifts over the weekend, too.  So at least I've started!  I hope I didn't overload you with pictures!  How did you recover over the weekend?  I wanted to watch some Christmas movies last night but I couldn't hold my eyes open!  I hope all of you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and I want to hear all about it! :)

I'm joining Marty at A Stroll Thru Life for Tabletop Tuesday!   

HOLIDAY HAPPINESS

Is everyone ready for the big day?  Or did that send a chill up your spine?  I have had the most fun the past few days blogging and seeing every one's beautiful tables and reading delicious recipes, even some Christmas decor posts!  I just love the holiday season...it's the most wonderful time of the year!  I've seen a few Christmas movies on the Hallmark channel and we have a radio station that is already playing carols!  Last year at this time I already had a lot of Christmas shopping done but I'm not feeling the need to break my neck trying to stay on top of everything.  I thought if I had everything done early, I could sit back and enjoy the holiday.  Well, I was wrong!  I was still running around at the last minute and everything came out alright.  I think the key might be to just relax and enjoy the whole process.

I had another slow weekend which has been pretty typical around here lately.  Papa came to visit on Sunday and I baked some cupcakes.  Remember the box of Hot Chocolate cupcakes I posted about last week?  Well, I made those.

They were really good but I can't say they  tasted like hot chocolate.  They had little marshmallows in them and the frosting was out of sight.  I would definitely make them again.  I think they are by Betty Crocker.

Today I was browsing the holiday aisle at Walgreen's and I came upon these darling little ornaments.  Aren't these creatures just the cutest?  That porcupine is just too too!  I need more ornaments like I need a hole in the head.  Last year I didn't even decorate the back of the tree, but I do remember we bought the tree The Husband liked and it was HUGE!  I used a lot of ornaments, but this year I am going to get  one a lot smaller, my living room is not big at all so I try to get something proportional.  And, since we get a live tree, it won't be until mid December, long after everyone has been to all the blog parties.  But you know of course, I will post pictures.

I wish I could say that this is my Thanksgiving table this year, all set and ready to go.  But it's actually last year and if you are thinking it looks like Christmas, you're right!  I had just gotten my Winterberry holiday dishes and since we weren't having Christmas dinner here, I decided to use them for Thanksgiving!

Here's a close up.  I am going to bring them out and use them during December.  Or who knows...maybe we will have Christmas dinner here if The Husband is not up to having dinner at a relative's home.  Thank you all for your well wishes, you guys are the best.  We haven't gotten a surgery date yet, but I wish we would soon.  Emily and her fiance are going to Aruba in mid December for a week (she won the trip through her job) and Abby has a big Christmas dance at her boyfriend's university in Michigan at some time during the month.  I want us all to be together. It'll work out.

Back to Thanksgiving tables, I am going to use the Anthropologie white dishes that I have had for awhile that were intended for a wall display.  I now know  I'm not going to hang them so we can use them.  I don't know why I felt that if we ate off them that I couldn't hang them! lol!  And for the centerpiece...I'm still working on it.  I have looked at 1000 while blogging and in magazines (thankfully I don't do Pinterest or I wouldn't even have time to write this post).  The ones that really caught my eye were done with fruit and vegetables, beautiful earthy pears and apples and artichokes, and kale that looks like purple flowers.  As luck would have it, I was going out to the store yesterday to buy my turkey and The Husband tagged along.  And he promised not to whine.  He was so good I bought him candy at the check out line!  I was standing in the middle of the produce section, my mind going a mile a minute and when he asked me what I was doing, he just didn't get it.  Then he found a big bouquet of fall colored flowers and insisted we get them.  I was surprised because he's not a big spender and these were $12.99.  I think he really just wants a normal table.  So...as pictured above, I have the bouquet and I found this wicker basket when I was shopping the house.  This is as far as I've got.  Maybe I'll place the basket on a bed of kale.

I made a few changes in our bedroom to "fall" things up from all the neutral colors I had going on.  This is really colorful for me but I fell in love with the curtains on the Target website and then went to Pottery Barn for the throw and pillow.

It's a really gloomy day here so the pictures aren't so bright.  And yes, we have ivy growing over all of our windows!  The painting on the wall has never been moved in over 20 years (except to paint of course).  I found it early on in our marriage and it was $200.00.  I scrimped and saved, used coupons and didn't shop for shoes (!) and finally I was able to buy it.  It's Andrew Wyeth's Master Bedroom.

Well, tomorrow I am going to make ahead whatever I can make ahead.  Emily is making the stuffing from scratch, as in with stale bread.  I've always used Pepperidge Farm stuffing mix (an ode to my late sister, Leslie, who worked for Pepperidge Farm for 25 years).  But Emily wants to do it the old fashioned way and actually, I'm curious.  Her recipe is very different from mine.  She also wanted to brine the turkey and I put my foot down...that's rather involved and she has never made so much as a chicken before.  But she's a big help and if Abby doesn't help, we'll make her clean the bathroom.  And, one last thing...thanks for all of the recipes and tips for roasted sweet potatoes!  They were all really good, but the Oscar goes to...The Summer Kitchen Girls who gave me a recipe for a sweet potato souffle!  Whoa!  They said it's like eating dessert!  I'll let you know how it turns out and post the recipe in case you'd like to try it for Christmas.

Friday morning we leave for Cedarburg, Wisconsin for our 3 day anniversary trip.  The B&B is booked, I ordered a bottle of champagne and box of chocolates as a surprise for The Husband and in return I want him to take me for a carriage ride!  Can't wait!

Happy Thanksgiving to all and I'm sending much love.  I am so thankful for your friendship and so much more.  See all of you next week! :)

A LITTLE OF THIS AND THAT

This is my favorite chair for reading in the family room.  I spent a lot of time here last weekend as we did absolutely nothing, which was nice!  The Husband busied himself watching the Bears and Notre Dame and I pretty much behaved like a cat...reading, stretching, yawning, napping and sniffing around for food!  The temps reached a high of 65 but it rained the whole time.  Sigh.

My plants are blooming like crazy.  I think they like it here.  Maybe I won't take them back to the lake in the spring!

I do baby them a lot and they probably thank The Husband for keeping the heat cranked up high.  Every time we walk by the thermostat, he turns it up and I turn it down.  I sneak and open windows and he closes them  He clearly does not understand a menopausal woman!

Tuesday he had to have some tests done downtown and I went with him.  It takes about 20 minutes for us to get to downtown Chicago.

It was sunny but cold but I had dug out my winter coat and I had mittens. 

I ended up sitting in the waiting room for 3 hours.  I am really a very patient person, I brought the newspaper and a book and of course, there is always people watching.  Don't let them see you staring though, Midwesterners LOVE to talk.  One lady next to me was crocheting on a plastic round contraption and I was entranced.  Anyone know what these things are called?  Someone else was talking endlessly on their cell.  Normally I wish people like this would step out into the hall, but I'm nosy by nature and totally got into her conversation.  Just killing time.

By the time we left the hospital it was dark and we were hungry so we walked a few blocks and had dinner here...The Elephant & Castle.  It's an Irish restaurant that I have been to a few times before.  They serve a lot of lamb, fish and chips, bangers and mash and shepherds pie.

We sat by the fireplace which was very nice and cozy.

I had the shepherds pie which was out of this world, and The Husband had a steak.  A glass of wine each and we were feeling a little sleepy so we didn't hit any shops.

His tests went well but he has to have surgery some time after Thanksgiving.  I can't really go into any more detail out of respect for him...it's him, not me.  Heaven knows if it were me I'd be posting away in a morphine induced fog!  But I will certainly let you know how he does.

After my lazy weekend I hit the ground running on Monday; cleaning, laundry, errands, grocery shopping, dinner and the gym.  I'm like a one stop convenience store...I like everything done at once.  Today is the first time I've been able to sit and post.  I truly want to get back into the habit of posting more than once a week.but I have so very little going on most of the time and I don't want to bore you.  And I lack a lot of privacy.  Most days all of my kids are in and out and it's like a zoo with the TV blasting sports and them raiding the refrigerator, messing up my bathroom with showers and such, and I just can't concentrate.

When I was  at the grocery store I picked up everything I needed for Thanksgiving except for the turkey (I like to wait and get the best price from all the stores I shop at), and my veggies which I like fresh.  I was thinking of making roasted sweet potatoes as a side dish.  Does anyone know how to make these or have a recipe (no marshmallows please)?  I usually just peel and boil them and then pour hot butter and brown sugar over, but I'd like to try something different.  If you have a good recipe and don't mind, can you email me it?

I also found this cupcake mix at the store.  Doesn't it sound delicious?  I don't usually use mixes unless I'm in a hurry but I couldn't pass this up and I'm sure everyone will love them.  I'll be sure to share with you (pictures and my opinion, not a real cupcake).

Well, I have four little projects to take care of today.  If you follow Marty and Kathy, you will see that they did a super duper job organizing their bathroom vanity cabinets.  So I'm going to tackle that, my vanity, the top of The Husbands armoire and my kitchen junk drawer.  Everyone has a kitchen junk drawer, don't they?  Maybe I'll take before and afters, it might just make you fall off your chair!

Have a good rest of the week everyone.  I'm partying with Claudia over at Mockingbird Hill Cottage for her Favorite Things Party.  Join in, it's fun! :)

A HOLIDAY PERSPECTIVE

Is everyone getting in on the frenzy in getting ready for Thanksgiving?  We've made our plans, dinner here with the kids and then dessert as well with the extended family.  Once again we are having our Most Creative Dessert Contest and I've heard my little niece Maggie has been planning hers for weeks!  Psssst...one of the children always wins and we have little gifts for all of them.  They take it SO seriously!

In my head I have been setting my table, choosing napkins, glasses and pondering centerpieces.  I've seen a few tables where the center is decorated with a weathered wood plank topped with greenery, candles, flowers, whatever you can dream of.  I like that idea.  We've come a long way since just having a vase of flowers!

Although the days seem to be flying by, I think I've had a good perspective about not getting caught up in the rush of the holidays.  First of all, I know I'm easily influenced by others getting ready and the bombardment of TV commercials, magazines articles and just listening to people talk about their plans, and then having those fleeting feelings of anxiety that I'm behind the eight ball.  Well, I'm not letting that happen to me this year...well, I'm going to try really hard!  Thanksgiving is easy for me, Christmas just gets chaotic and I don't need to spell out why.  Even when I have a head start, those last minute details crop up.  By the time the celebrations start, I feel very exhausted.  So, I'm going to try, really, really hard to relax, not fuss a great deal and try to let the season just unfold at an easy pace.  Famous last words!

I've had a slow week, but interesting as always.  When I woke up Monday morning, I thought, wow, I really have nothing on the agenda all week.  It felt great.  I saw a lot of lazy days just getting caught up on a few projects and some organizing, doing a little baking and making some more involved meals.  Then mid week I came down with the stomach flu out of nowhere.  I'm grateful there was nowhere I had to be and I could just weather it out.  I'm back to having more than toast and tea and my legs feel a little less wobbly!  Boy, it really hit hard.  

So...I really didn't do much all week.  The Husband and I did get out for a nice dinner last Saturday which I was really hoping for.  We tried a new Italian restaurant a few blocks away and had a great time.  I forgot to mention that the weekend before, my sister in law had the whole family over for a casual dinner; chicken casserole, pulled pork sandwiches, baked mashed potatoes (my contribution), salad and pumpkin pie for dessert.  It was a nice get-together, the wine flowed and we talked about our holiday plans.  Good times.

I finally hit on a place for The Husband and I to get away to.  So much time has passed since we started talking about it, it has now become our anniversary get away that we always take in December (26 years on the 14th!).  This is a picture of downtown Cedarburg, Wisconsin.  I came across an article about it in Midwest Living and then Cindy from Applestone Cottage recommended it to me.  It's a quaint little town just north of Milwaukee.  Every Friday night between Thanksgiving and Christmas there is a festival.  With over 75 specialty shops, 25 restaurants, sleigh and carriage rides and historical sites, I think we are going to have a great 3 day weekend.  We leave the day after Thanksgiving.  I promise to take lots of pictures!

I leave you with a picture of the new shoes I found at Marshall's.  Yep, that trip put a little hold on my Christmas shopping.  I vow I will not gift myself with anything else until long after the holidays!  But aren't they the cutest?!  They sort of shimmer.  Ooh la la!

Well, I am going to relax a little and see if I feel a little less queasy to go to the gym with The Husband tonight.  He is SO good, he goes every night.  I hope everyone has a great weekend! :)

I'm joining Claudia's Favorite Things party at Mockingbird Hill Cottage.

IS THE THRILL OF FALL OVER?

Before I get started on my post dedicated to all things trivial, I want to say how saddened I am by the events and devastation that has occurred on the East Coast.  I was emailing back and forth with some bloggers in the path of Hurricane Sandy as it actually was unfolding and the panic took over me as if I were there.  I hope all of you that were affected in any way by this catastrophe know that people all over the country are holding you close to our hearts.  We are, after all, the United States.

Here in the Midwest it's business as usual.  I do want to thank everyone who commiserated with me after my last post and gave me advice about the high cholesterol problem I am having.  I learned a lot from you ladies.  I really hope that getting in shape and working on my eating habits will help.  As for the Big 'Ol Spider, I think he succumbed to the cold, and the mice...well, after I found some droppings (a nice word for poop) in the cabinet where I keep my pots and pans, let's just say I pulled out the big guns.  You know how I hate to wash pots and pans.  So far, so good.  As for Mr. Squirrel, he seems to like the garage and comes and goes as he pleases.  I'll think about that another day.

The weather has certainly turned cold here...it's been in the 40's all week.  With the cold comes the dryness and coupled with having the heat on in the house, my skin feels as rough as this little cactus.  I was out the other day and I noticed my make up had settled into all of those little "laugh lines" around my eyes (!).  So...

I dipped into my arsenal of good stuff and declared war.  This is some wonderful cream and the tiny little jar lasts me all winter.  Moisturizing eye drops help too so you aren't rubbing and pulling on the skin around your eyes. 

I am always trying new body lotions but I always come back to these and they are just the drugstore variety.  Since I am slathering it on all the time, it's nice that it's inexpensive enough to stock up on. Just a little bit of trivia I thought I'd pass on and that's all I have from Blondie's Beauty Dept. this week.

Just to show you how random this post is, I'm throwing in a picture of Layla.  Isn't she cute?  She is not so cute though at 6 a.m. in the morning when I have to chase her around the house to get her outside to do her number.  She doesn't like her dainty little paws to get cold and it's not even winter yet!  It is however, the start of November and fall is in full swing.  I know most of us bloggers are getting a little bored with seeing fall decor and hearing about all the coziness of the season, so I thought I would wax a little poetic on some of my real feelings about fall.

-The foliage on the trees was so pretty and I loved the lush carpet they made on my lawn, but I am so sick of cleaning up wet leaves off my floor, and worse, the dry ones that crumble and go everywhere.

-Last night we sat by a roaring fire that took the nip out of the air while we snuggled under our quilts, and today I am shoveling out all the sooty ashes to haul out to my barren garden as a fertilizer of sorts.

-And this morning I was thinking of how great that hot cocoa with marshmallows tasted last night in front of said roaring fire, until I realized there wasn't a clean cup in the house for my coffee.

-As I straightened up the house today, I admired the spooky little pumpkins we had carved for Halloween, and as I moved one, it collapsed in a rotting mess.

-And finally, a very honest blogger related that she told her daughter to go make herself a sandwich for dinner because she was writing a post about her cozy little home!

Enough said.

 

 

I really am having a good day if you are wondering.  I have a picture here from the website of the university where I go to the gym.  I promise that if I becomes a gym rat (ha!) that I won't bother you with all the statistics of my weight and how many laps I've run...oh heck, the last time I was there I walked one mile but rode the bike 3 miles.  Yay!  The Husband goes every night, God love him.  He even got those little ear plugs so he can listen to music while he is exercising.  Well actually, he listens to talk radio.  I try to go if I'm not too burnt out at 6:00 p.m. and to my credit, I want to tell you I gave up cream in my coffee.  Yep, that sugary French Vanilla stuff at 40 calories a teaspoon.  To celebrate, I had a piece of pumpkin pie for breakfast.

This post has gone on too long, I wanted to tell you a bit about the book I am reading, but I'll save that for next time.  I was inspired to start reading a series of books by this author, Donna Ball, when I dropped by Liz's blog, Rose Vignettes.  I read all five in the series in about 3 weeks and have now started another one that had me up til midnight last night.  Check out her books on Amazon .com

I hope you have a wonderful weekend.  I hope that I can get The Husband to take me out for dinner sometime between the Notre Dame and Bears games.  Wish me luck! :)